c/real-talk

We went to a nice restaurant. The waiter ignored us for 20 minutes, messed up our order, and rolled his eyes when we asked for refills. The bill was $100. I left $0 tip. My girlfriend says I'm an AH because waiters make low wages. AITA?

My coworker was let go last week and now I'm doing his job plus mine. I'm drowning in work. I want to ask for a 20% raise. My friends say it's insensitive timing, but I'm doing double the work. WIBTA?

My sister called me an hour ago asking if I could watch her 3-year-old because she wants to go to a concert. I have plans to relax and watch a movie. I said no. She called me selfish and said "family helps family". AITA?

My neighbor plays bass-heavy music until 3am almost every night. I've asked him nicely to turn it down twice. He says "it's a free country". I have to wake up at 6am for work. I'm thinking of calling the police non-emergency line. WIBTA?

My mom constantly criticizes my parenting. Yesterday she told my son he was "getting fat" because I let him have a cookie. I snapped and told her to "shut up and stop body shaming a child". She left crying and now my dad says I need to apologize. AITA?

My cousin is getting married in Bali next year. It's going to cost me around $3k to attend. We aren't that close, and I'm trying to save for a house. My family is pressuring me to go, saying "family comes first". I feel bad, but it's a lot of money. WIBTA?

I (24M) came home late from work last night, absolutely starving. My roommate (25M) had left a box of pizza in the fridge. It had his name on it, but I was so hungry I didn't care. I ate 3 slices. This morning he blew up at me, saying he was saving it for lunch. I offered to pay him back, but he says it's about respect. AITA?