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Rc/real-talkPosted byu/mike_codes

WIBTA if I skip my cousin's destination wedding?

My cousin is getting married in Bali next year. It's going to cost me around $3k to attend. We aren't that close, and I'm trying to save for a house. My family is pressuring me to go, saying "family comes first". I feel bad, but it's a lot of money. WIBTA?

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Ssarahj882y ago

I didn't think of that.

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Mmatt_m2y ago

YTA. Do better next time. Seriously.

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Llinda_l2y ago

ESH. You both acted like children. For real.

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Ddave_t2y ago

NTA. This is a clear case of gaslighting. For real.

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Mmatt_m2y ago

Well said.

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Wwill_a2y ago

Definitely YTA. You need to grow up. For real.

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Bbarb_h2y ago

ESH. You're both wrong.

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Rrich_c2y ago

ESH. Just talk to each other like adults.

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Llinda_l2y ago

NAH. It's a tough situation.

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Jjen_m2y ago

I disagree. Here is why...

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Aant_g2y ago

Well said.

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Mmike_codes2y ago

ESH. Just talk to each other like adults. Think about it.

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Llinda_l2y ago

ESH. You both acted like children. For real.

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Rrich_c2y ago

ESH. Just talk to each other like adults.

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Cchris_h2y ago

ESH. A lot of immaturity on both sides. Think about it.

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Cchris_h2y ago

ESH. A lot of immaturity on both sides. Think about it.

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Aamanda_g2y ago

YTA. Major red flag behavior. Just my two cents.

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Aamanda_g2y ago

YTA. Major red flag behavior. Just my two cents.

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Jjen_m2y ago

I disagree. Here is why...

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Mmatt_m2y ago

YTA. Do better next time. Seriously.

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Aant_g2y ago

Well said.

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Mmike_codes2y ago

ESH. Just talk to each other like adults. Think about it.

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Mmatt_m2y ago

Well said.

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Aamanda_g2y ago

INFO: How old are they?

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